I already wrote about how glad I am for rediscovering the f**k it book.
On a second thought, I don’t think this kind of philosophy is something I’d want to go by actually. It’s just not me.
I was already there, but wasn’t happy at all. Right the opposite.
I became a bit too selfish back then, even without being depressed.
Many books (and other resources) are centered into rediscovering your self-worth, etc. It’s great to set your own boundaries and not allowing others to take advantage of you or treat you bad. But there is quite a thin line between becoming self confident and a narcissist.
I’m wondering how much kindness is too much, what is pure kindness and what is just the need to please people?
You can’t please everybody, but you can stay kind. At least this is as far as your influence goes. You can as well be rude at some point, it depends on your values.
I questioned myself a few times when it comes to blogging.
What is my goal here? To please me as a writer, you as a reader, both or try not to care (obviously, this is not an option) and just ‘go with the flow’?
What about you, do you ever question yourself in similar ways?
Are you a giver or a taker (or overthinker 🙂 )?